It is very common for us to see ourselves as being hard done by; by our parents, our significant other, our extended family, our in-laws, our friends, etc.
 
But when you look at how these pivotal people are designed, and the experiences you came here to learn, you will see that, more often than not, they are playing the role that you need them to play, in order for you to learn what you came here to learn.

In addition, not all of us are aware of our unique design, psychology, needs, triggers, strengths, or our impact on others. Many times, people are not even interested in learning about themselves, and we can not change them. Nor is it our job to do so.

But, if we can understand enough about how they are built, we can have more compassion for how they act and re-act. We can see how we contribute to them reacting in a positive or negative way. And when we choose to behave in a more conscious manner, we can navigate difficult situations with more awareness of what is really going on, taking things less personally, and grasping the lesson, without having it take such a toll on our health. We can choose not to engage in losing battles. We can accept and support our parents, partners, extended family, in-laws, and friends, for where they are at.

Relationships are an opportunity for us to work on ourselves.

If you would like to forgive your parents, in laws, friends, partners, ex-partners for whatever you perceive they may have done to you, so you can see the bigger picture, go here to book a free, no obligation, no pressure, 15 minutes consultation.

This article (with embedded video) shows examples of partner, parent-child, and grandparent-grandchildren relationships, including why some relationships are easier or harder than others: Understanding Evolves, Co-Parents' Struggle, Sibling Rivalry, and Your Parent-Child worldview (yourlifeplan.ca)

If you want to have a deep, respectful relationship, I would be happy to look at your charts side by side, so you can see where you're going to thrive and where each of you is going to need support, because we all have strengths and weakness, and places where we are likely to fail and get hurt, or hurt others, if they don't understand. Lockdown was painful for my husband and I, but we are in a much better place now, because we learned to see, appreciate, support, and protect who each of us are.