The term "Felt Safety" was borrowed from Robyn Gobbel's work, in that it drives why some kids have Big Baffling Behaviors.

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When we look at it from the perspective of You Have A Life Plan, Felt Safety is the condition that determines whether your life plan can actually be lived. It is not something you can easily change with words, but it is something we can change if we speak using the language of the body - light, frequency, brainwaves, sacred geometry, following the pathways of embryological development. If we feel safe early on in life, then we know why we are here and we can execute our plan, the opposite is also true, but it is never too late to correct and reconnect.

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Our health and behaviour is directly related to how safe we feel.​

When Felt Safety is present, we are embodied, we can pump out garbage, perceive things more clearly, see our options, and this allows us to live what Unique Psychology can only try to put into words.

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There are two ways in which Felt Safety can be absent. In both instances we have subconsciously concluded that the world is not safe and we cannot follow our Life Plan. The first — we cope with shock and dissociation. The second — we cope by burying our issues. The body compensates by signaling through hormonal problems, frequent illness, or pain. Braced, we refuse to be open to new ideas, and this locks things in (or out) even further. We also put off a vibration that others subconsciously feel, drawing more conflict and less support toward us. The good news is that the body is always trying to show us. We just need the tools to read what it's saying.

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Mainstream research has taught us a great deal about the nervous system and attachment. But most of the interventions it offers work through language, routine, and relationship — which can be a lot of work, and can do harm when parents are doing what they think they are being told, but the child is actually asking for something else.

Language — and the assumption that everyone is the same — is the barrier.

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Felt Safety is not primarily stored in language. It is stored in the body, in the nervous system, in patterns laid down before words existed. Talking about it can only reach so far. This work sidesteps what is assumed to work in theory and takes a more honest look at what each person needs, and how they respond to what works for them and what doesn't.

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This is where Kirlian Photography comes in.

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Kirlian Photography makes Felt Safety visible. A photo of the fingers and toes shows — in real time — the state of the nervous system, what is blocked, what is flowing, and where the body is bracing against something it hasn't been able to process.

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The body will only show what it feels safe enough to reveal. Safety is already built into the system. Your deeper layers will not be exposed until we have shown through treatment that we know how to deal with what is more at the surface. 

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Over time, as treatment creates more safety, the photo shows us the more vulnerable deeper layers that it would like us to clear. The body begins to trust that someone who speaks its language is working with it.

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Once we can see what's happening, Esogetic Treatment addresses it directly — restoring the flow of information so the body, mind, and life can do what it already knows how to do: heal, regulate, and move forward.

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The combination of services offered through You Have a Life Plan is one of the most powerful and hard-to-find approaches available. And it's offered in person in Oakville, Ontario.

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What does a Kirlian photo actually show?

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Each finger and toe maps to specific physical structures, psychological patterns, and nervous system states. A trained eye can read what's open, what's blocked, and what's keeping a person stuck.​